I have been dating this guy for about four months and his grandaunt passed a week before my birthday.He called and told me that things are overwhelming because he just lost two family members about a year ago, and now hes basically losing one of the women that raised him (he was raised by his grandaunt and grandma). Everything was going so well, we were joking around about plans for my birthday the day prior and im just so blindsided by everything. I've tried reaching out and being there for him during this difficult time but he doesn't want to let me in, judging by his social media everything is looking normal he goes to work, goes partying with friends etc im just wondering why he cut me out from all of that when everything was going so good.
