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She broke up with me.. i did my best i tried to be there for her but, she said she needed time and space.. so I gave it to her.. I told her I can wait.. she replied "dont make it harder for you". I let her go..

She lost all hope. She said she cant take it anymore that she's just so tired. I didn't know what to say. What can I do?

So, we went to the funeral.. I couldn't have an alone time with her because there were a lot of people, but I was able to give the locket and otw home she texted me that she really appreciated it. When we were about to go home one of her peers asked where they would reside after.. and she told us that there is a chance that they migrate to uk and every word stung because I wanted her to go to uk because she is safer there (since they receive threats) but at the same time I want to hold on to her I mean I cannot imagine my parents giving me permission to go to uk..so it means it might be our end hypothetically at the same time before her parents died everything was planned out.. We were supposed to be collegues in our field. It was supposed to be only a few months that we will endure ldr be cause she was in a vacation. We were fresh grads and will be workig together in the same company. We had plans but now there is no plan anymore.. i hate the fact that having this thought makes me selfish .. but in the end it's just thoughts I'll never ever encourage her to stay here I mean whatever her family decides i'll just support her and if we we weren't really meant to be then so be it.. i'll just love her as long as she lets me .. even if ill get hurt in the end..

Kayc, before writing about what happened. I searched for a lot of websites that could help me comfort my girlfriend. I stumbled upon this website and saw your interaction with a guy whose gf's father died. I really thank you because even though your posts weren't for me I related to the guy's situation and I followed what you said , to follow my gf's lead. I talk to her everyday and sometimes I tell funny stories and she laughs.. but I know deep down that what she's experiencing is heartbreaking. The funeral will be held tomorrow and I'm not sure if I can go because my parents uhh they don't even know that I have a girlfriend. So.. I bought her a locket necklace with a picture of her mom and dad. The picture was taken in their house so I thought she might appreciate it. Do you think it's alright if I give her the locket? Kayc and MartyT, really thankful for sending the articles..

It was the first week of May when an unexpected thing happened. My girlfriend was eating with her younger brother and parents at the restaurant of their grandma, when 2 men entered and shot my girlfriend's mom and dad, her younger was shot too ,but thankfully he was able to dodge the bullet. My girlfriend crawled so she wouldn't get hit. Her parents died. It is really heartbreaking for me to see how much pain she is in. We are in a long distance relationship so it's hard for me to check on her from time to time. I visited her together with our common friends for just awhile. I really wanted to stay ,but the driver insists we should go. It is hard for me to see her trying hard to look fine in the outside ,but seeing her eyes full of pain. It's only been less than a week. How can I be there for her while we are in a ldr?