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I'm exhausted, worked my tail off yesterday moving metal pipes from under patio to where they'll deliver the dumpster, also two cat scratchers, then I realized I had enough to fill it and we hadn't started on the area of the carport & electrical room that needs cleared out so they can work on it, so will put the cat scratchers back today, maybe I can put them on the next burn pile, will get Jack's opinion. Throwing away two new cots something chewed the foam out of, will send with garbagemen instead of dumpster. Having a time with my diabetes, don't know anyone who tries harder w/o the desired results, I'm feeling discouraged. Was ecstatic about our unanimous vote of our new pastor...which in turn raised my cortisol and hence my blood sugar. Working so hard yesterday raised my BS. Last week Iris gave me what she thought was a diet soda, 43 carbs!!! Drank 1/2, just got back into Ketosis and now this. I feel like giving up but can't this is my life. Need to make appt to see doctor, don't want to but will have to see him within two weeks, ugh. I'm eating OMAD, weight 102 with 10-15 lbs excess skin, that puts me at 87-92 w/o it. Size 2 jeans falling down, have nothing smaller. Hate to shop and can't buy w/o trying on, ugh. Anyway, this is my life, such as it is. Wish I could hear from my kids. I have a niece who is in a gay marriage, a gay couple down the street, married 27 years or so. They're nice. I don't judge. Can't understand because I'm not but don't judge them either.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. My fiance of a year broke up with me when his mom was dying, we remained friends after she died but they don't normally resume relationship when taking a time apart due to grief. I don't want to project on you what I went through but in the Loss of Love section, I've seen a lot of these situations and none of them resumed, I've read them all over the years. I thought a couple did only to have them message me later that they did not. I don't want to give you false hope, but some grievers are unable to do a relationship at the same time as grieving, those seem to be the ones we hear about here. Otherwise, the person would have no need to be here. Here I Go Again

Me too. I'm sorry that happened to you! This was all I had left of my MIL, she died 36 1/2 years ago. She was the mom I always wanted.

I am so sorry for the loss of your friend, and for his wife's tremendous loss...I know what that feels, I lost my soulmate and best friend 19 years ago Father's Day. Living alone since excepting the short stint my son was between Air Force and College, that was long ago. Growing alone w/o my George. He died doing what he loved, glad for that part at least.

I'm so sorry about your diagnosis, but so glad to hear the lilac bloomed. The first thing I planted when moving here 47 years ago was a start off my MIL's lilac tree. It filled me with joy all these years. Last year the rangers (highly intrusive!) came and cut it down without announcing themselves here or their intentions, before 8 am! I ran out there in my robe and slippers, too late. Irreplaceable.

Prayers, Sweetie!

Estates are horrible to settle, best if you don't have to go into probate. Went through that with my sister's place, left to all nine nieces/nephews but lawyers and CPAs took a lion's share. Will over 20 years old, she was in the process of trying to redo it when she died, lawyer never called her back. My brother handled the estate as I'm in my 70s. I appreciate the headache he took on and thankfully he has a wife and grown kids that helped whereas I'm alone and don't have the strength. I'm sorry for your loss. Parent Loss: Continuing Their Song

You might enter their picture in Google image, I often do when looking for recipes. They will come up with some and check on the sites they show to the right.. Yesterday was crazy. My passwords disappeared so I had to type them in, which meant I had to look them up. See why I spent over three days/nights changing them and recording them in a pw protected spreadsheet? It's a good thing I did. Yay Windows 11. Also, I could not get into chat/messenger, not even in our group one in FB. It didn't accept my pin, which I remember and set about a week ago. It sent me a code on my mobile phone but didn't tell me how it was sending it, and I didn't have that on. It opened in AVG browser, not Chrome, which I use. What a mess! I had Lynne call me and verify what I remembered of our discussion when they came up with this. Was so tired! Slept 9 hours last night, I needed it. I got rid of more stuff in the garage. Somebody wanted the computers sitting by my garbage, I said sure, I can't tell you how old they are, maybe windows 95? Hard to remember, but before I got my windows 7 in 2009. I remember giving Windows 98 to a friend along with a printer so this would be before that. Doubt they'll run and they'd been sitting outside, got rained on a bit. Passwords all changed and visa numbers since I used it. He wants to use them for gaming, good luck with it. I have contacted them every way I know to (Don Jackson, the contractor, is in charge and has given them the message several times, also a friend called the church yesterday morning and they said they would call me, still haven't, been four days now.) At this point all I can do is wait and hope they do. I fixed this yesterday, it was seriously out of this world! Iris asked for some so took some to her. I made some changes to it, cut down and added sausage: Keto Eggplant Parmesan Ingredients · 2 medium eggplant sliced into 1/2 inch slices (1…13) · 1/2 teaspoon salt · 2 cups keto bread crumbs (1…0) * See notes · 1 tablespoon Italian seasoning · 3 large eggs (cut to 1…0.6) · 3/4 cup almond milk (cut to ¼…0.25) · 2-3 tablespoons oil to fry Avocado oil (0) · 4 cups keto marinara sauce (12 oz 9) · 3 cups mozzarella cheese freshly grated (1 ½ cups 4.2) · 1 cup parmesan cheese freshly grated ( ½ cup 0) · 1 lb Sausage cooked (0) Instructions 1. Sprinkle salt on all your eggplant slices and let them sit for an hour to draw out moisture. Use a paper towel to dab them after they have drawn out the liquid. 2. Preheat the oven to 180/350F. Grease a large baking dish and add around one cup of the marinara sauce to the bottom of it. 3. *In a small bowl, add the bread crumbs and Italian seasoning and mix together. In a separate bowl, combine the eggs and milk and whisk together. Dip each eggplant slice in the egg wash, followed by the bread crumb mix, ensuring both sides are coated. Place them all on a plate or baking tray until ready to cook. 4. Add the oil in a large non-stick pan. Once hot, add a single layer of eggplant slices and cook both sides until golden brown. Repeat until all the eggplant slices are cooked. 5. Add a single layer of the fried eggplant into the base of the baking dish. Spoon a little marinara sauce on top of each one, followed by a generous layer of the mozzarella cheese and the parmesan cheese. Repeat the process until all the eggplant has been used up. Sprinkle the top of the baking dish any remaining cheese. 6. Bake the eggplant parmesan for 20-25 minutes, until the cheese is golden and bubbly. Turn it on a high broil for the last 3 minutes. 7. Remove the eggplant parm from the oven and let it sit for five minutes before serving. Notes * If you don’t want to make keto bread crumbs, you can use almond flour. If you don’t fry before baking, bake 350 45 minutes. Can cook w/o peeling. TO STORE: Store leftovers in the refrigerator, covered, for up to 5 days. TO FREEZE: Place portions of the eggplant parm in an airtight container and store them in the freezer for up to 6 months. TO REHEAT: Microwave portions for 30-40 seconds until warm, or reheat in a preheated oven until the cheese has melted. TO MAKE AHEAD: Prepare everything as instructed, then cover the baking dish completely in aluminum foil. Either refrigerate it for 3 days in advance or freeze it for up to 2 months in advance. When ready to cook, bring the baking dish to room temperature and bake it for 30-35 minutes. Do not bake from frozen. 8 servings, 5 net carbs each #recipe https://thebigmansworld.com/keto-eggplant-parmesan/... I would cut to 1 egg and ¼ c. almond Milk Cut mozzarella and parmesan in half, use at least 1 c. Panko crumbs and/or almond flour, 1-2 eggplants. Cut portion to 4 and cut Italo’s sausage Pasta Sauce to 12 oz, you’ll have 12 oz left to put in freezer for something else. This will also cut the carbs. THEBIGMANSWORLD.COM Keto Eggplant Parmesan (Restaurant Style!) - The Big Man's World ® This keto eggplant parmesan is a delicious (4 servings 6.75)

Thinking of you...

Say a prayer, it's been over two days and no phone call from the Mormon missionaries...I can't move the stuff out and have the work done without their help. There's literally no one at my church that can help me, no one young enough, strong enough, hardly anyone there but old people and not many of them. Same with neighbors, although I'm the oldest.

Have a frank talk with your son, long overdue, tell him you are sorry, ask him what you can do to bury the hatchet...then do it. I am sorry for your loss. It's been nearly 19 years Father's Day I lost my husband, George. It was the 19th that year, and I've lived alone since except when my son was between Air Force and college, and my daughter was here a short time after George died. You think you did something silly, I did something worse when in grief fog...I married. Idiotic, I know, he never lived with me, just used my credit, to the tune of $57,000.00. I'm still paying on it all these years later. I know what I was thinking, I didn't want to do to my kids what my mom had done to us kids...I didn't want to make my life about my adult children, squelching them. I felt I needed to rebuilt my life. Fine job of it, huh? His name is Con John. I divorced him when I came to, should have been able to annul it but it was too late by then. I haven't had any contact with him in years. He's been on the lam so I can't collect what he owes, he's good at hiding, from anyone. I live my life alone with my service dog, growing older (71 now) alone in the country where life is hard. You have finally been able to acknowledge your wife is dead. That's a start. Is it possible to get any photos from family? I know you haven't forgotten what she looks like...you see her in your son's eyes. I miss my husband every day he's gone, nothing changes that. I can't listen to our music, I can't look at pictures of a life once lived... We are like ghosts...

Avocado oil is my favorite but my store quit carrying it in the bulk. I hope they get it back. Coconut oi is good to bake with. I agree about olive oil. I just had to throw out a huge can of it. That seems such a waste. Like they didn't know and value what they had. I have a great set of Mikasa Studio Nova Tender Bloom Stoneware that I love, have used nearly 30 years. Service for 12 or more... You could even try Goodwill or St Vinnie's for dishes. Any outlet stores would be good for new sets, I got mine there but ordered replacements from Replacements Inc. or on eBay. The original set was way less, replacement pieces is where they get you. Still waiting to hear back from the Mormon missionaries, the builder will talk to them at church. I really need help moving stuff, no way could I do it alone.

And I know it's a necessity in your city. I got a window A/C that seems to take care of the heat here, I know we aren't as hot as there but there was a time we hit 121 and it handled it. Of course you'd need more than one in different parts of the house, I sleep in my living room not my bedroom. Got it on Amazon $2-300. Also, you might check with senior services and the electric company to see if there are any programs/helps. I know in my state they helped people (AFTER I got mine) who didn't have one esp. the elderly.

The contractor just left...I requested two bids, one for short term emergent to save my essential room with electrical, water tank, pipes, and freezer, and the other for the back of the carport. He agreed. I told him I understand wood fluctuates by the week (Random Lengths comes out with it's pricing every week...I used to be Office Mgr for a mill) but it'd give me an idea give/take. I feel so relieved! He's going to call the Mormon missionaries to have them give me a call and I can arrange a time with them and get a dumpster up here meanwhile and he'll provide a dolly to them. Later when I've had $ saved up I can do the back of the carport. I discovered a "blower & box" that weighs a ton that needs moved, I didn't even know I had it...that will go into the dumpster if they can get it in there. A truck will move it when it's full. Now that I have a plan, I am so relieved! I don't want the carport going too long w/o the back replaced so will do my best to save $ for it. Still no prices but he said what he does to save my tank/electrical room will be under $1,000. Whew!

The contractor just left...I requested two bids, one for short term emergent to save my essential room with electrical, water tank, pipes, and freezer, and the other for the back of the carport. He agreed. I told him I understand wood fluctuates by the week (Random Lengths comes out with it's pricing every week...I used to be Office Mgr for a mill) but it'd give me an idea give/take. I feel so relieved! He's going to call the Mormon missionaries to have them give me a call and I can arrange a time with them and get a dumpster up here meanwhile and he'll provide a dolly to them. Later when I've had $ saved up I can do the back of the carport. I discovered a "blower & box" that weighs a ton that needs moved, I didn't even know I had it...that will go into the dumpster if they can get it in there. A truck will move it when it's full. Now that I have a plan, I am so relieved! I don't want the carport going too long w/o the back replaced so will do my best to save $ for it. Still no prices but he said what he does to save my tank/electrical room will be under $1,000. Whew!