1 Year Later...

[Mdc0128]

I came across this site right before my moms death as I was searching online for grief groups. This group gave me comfort when I couldn't find it around me. Well, its been over a year since my first post and a year as of Thanksgiving that my mom departed this earth. Life has gotten "easier" in the sense of the word that I'm no longer dreading each daybreak. I hit a point where I started working out more, taking care of myself, and forcing myself to find joy. After her death, I moved back where I had people who could hold me accountable. The road was difficult and forced me to feel a ton of emotions that I didn't want to. Yet, a year later. I'm still alive. I got married and found happiness, and even though I'm still grieving, I've gotten to a point where I can cope, because I know she's with me. I can feel her and find solace in that.

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone on this board. I wouldn't have gotten through those crucial first few months.

[MartyT]

I am deeply moved and so grateful for your taking time to give us this update, my friend. Blessings to you, and thank you. May peace and healing continue to be yours. ♥

[enna]

Your story brought a smile to my face. I am so very happy for you. I too believe that our loved ones are always with us. You will always have your memories of your mom. And congratulations on your marriage. 

[kayc]

Thank you so much for taking the time to let us know how things are going for you.  Congratulations on your marriage!  I hope you are happy where you've moved to.  I think as a parent I feel I've done my job that my kids are independent and happy with their spouse and their life continues, and I bet your mom would feel the same way and wish you all the happiness.