Gin Posted April 4, 2017 Report Share Posted April 4, 2017 It has been 18 months today since Al and I were separated. The doctors told me that the time was coming, but I do not think that I believed them. He was in the hospital so how could they not keep him alive? They asked if I wanted to call someone. Most of the time it was just the two of us. I told them "no". I had spent these last 2weeks by his side and was not going to leave. I spent the last nite with him but felt things were not going well. There was a blood vessel in his neck that was swollen and pounding. My daughter and son-in-law came at 8 a.m. We were talking and all of a sudden they motioned that the pounding stopped. He was gone. I firmly believe that he waited to die until there would be someone there with me. After all this time it is still so hard to believe he is gone and never coming back! 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brat#2 Posted April 4, 2017 Report Share Posted April 4, 2017 I know exactly how you feel, your are in my thoughts. Hugs Joyce 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Autumn2 Posted April 4, 2017 Report Share Posted April 4, 2017 Hugs Gin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarenK Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 Thinking of you, Gin. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Widowedbysuicide Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 So sorry Gin ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scba Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 Hugs to you Gin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 ♥ From all of us, dear Gin ♥ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaveM Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 You're in our hearts, Gin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 My dear Gin, my heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to absorb and process their deaths, it takes so long, it seems so unreal, we want to wake up and find out this is a nightmare that is over. That's how hard this revelation is to take. I wish I could fix it and make it better but none of us can do that...not for any of us, but please know we care and we're here for you. (((hugs))) 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KATPILOT Posted April 5, 2017 Report Share Posted April 5, 2017 1 hour ago, kayc said: please know we care and we're here for you. (((hugs))) We sure do Gin. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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