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Happy New Year In Heaven

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It's hard to believe that it was a year ago that you came shuffling down the hall with the walker chanting "Food - Wine". I know the little rest you had taken helped but I think you wanted to give me that one last New Year's kiss and you were going to do anything you could to do it. I think we both knew it would be the last.

I'll be blowing a kiss your way at midnight so don't start flapping your wings or it may go to the wrong person. I'll also throw some of your favorite (not) confetti. You wouldn't know what to do if I didn't.

I miss you so much and I'm not quite sure how I'm going to make it through tonight without you but I'll try. You were the most wonderful and thoughtful husband I could have ever hoped for. I just hope someday I will be able to think of you without this huge hole in my gut.

Happy New Year, Babe. I still love you with my whole heart.


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