enna Posted August 9, 2017 Report Share Posted August 9, 2017 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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enna Posted August 17, 2017 Report Share Posted August 17, 2017 This is grief ~ no matter the loss... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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kayc Posted August 28, 2017 Report Share Posted August 28, 2017 It's been many years since anyone has asked, I think they stop after the first month. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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enna Posted September 13, 2017 Report Share Posted September 13, 2017 (edited) A different picture. Edited September 30, 2017 by enna changed the picture to this one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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enna Posted October 3, 2017 Report Share Posted October 3, 2017 “Losing a loved one is torture, especially for those left behind. They say time heals all wounds. It doesn’t. It just patches a broken heart. It doesn’t get any easier over time. You just learn to live with the pain.” ― Mary Ting 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted October 4, 2017 Report Share Posted October 4, 2017 14 hours ago, enna said: They say time heals all wounds. It doesn’t. I just heard this same quote in What's Your Grief today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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enna Posted November 24, 2017 Report Share Posted November 24, 2017 Being out in nature is very relaxing. Do something good for yourself ~ take a walk. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted November 26, 2017 Report Share Posted November 26, 2017 It's why I live where I do...nature is so restoring and healthy for our perspective! To me it's worth more than high speed internet, shopping, great restaurants, all the things I'm missing because I chose to live here. A worthwhile exchange! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted November 30, 2017 Report Share Posted November 30, 2017 "Time is ungovernable, but grief presents us with a choice: what do we do with the savage energies of bereavement? What do we do with the memory - or in the memory - of the beloved? Some commemorate love with statuary, but behavior, too, is a memorial, as is a well-lived life. In death, there is always the promise of hope. The key is opening, rather than numbing, ourselves to pain. Above all, we must show our children how to celebrate existence in all its beauty, and how to get up after life has knocked us down, time and again. Half-dead, we stand. And together, we salute love. Because in the end, that's all that matters. How hard we loved, and how hard we tried." ~ Antonella Gambotto-Burke in The Eclipse: A Memoir of Suicide 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
enna Posted December 1, 2017 Report Share Posted December 1, 2017 Oh, I really like the quote above, Marty. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted December 5, 2017 Report Share Posted December 5, 2017 The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make a difference that you have lived and lived well.’ Ralph Waldo Emerson These are powerful words that are necessary reminders that growth is seldom peaceful and easy. Evolution is serious business and if you have come into this lifetime to grow your soul, then today's quote likely rings all too true. Between reality TV, the ridiculous highlight reel brand of social media shares that the vast majority of society imbibes in, and the photo shopped reality the advertising world envelops us in every day- it is easy to fall into the false belief that ‘everyone else out there is happy…’ Call me a pessimist but carte blanche happiness is a dead end road. Struggle is the thing that helps to form the very best parts of who we are. My opinion on this is rather strong- having spent 25 years as a grief therapist, I have watched time and again how the most extreme life circumstances can bring the most extraordinary gifts. Happy is a great thing to strive toward, but do not make happiness alone your goal in life. Let it come in and go out in waves… And when the tides of life bring you into deep waters- on those days, make sure that you are useful, honorable, and compassionate- because when happiness is far away, it is these things that will allow you to be buoyant. Copyright © 2017 | Dr. Annette Childs | All rights reserved.Our mailing address is: 7739 East Broadway Blvd. Suite 247 Tucson, AZ 85710 Would you like to change how you receive these emails? You can update your preferences or unsubscribe from this list. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KATPILOT Posted December 5, 2017 Report Share Posted December 5, 2017 I love this. I once felt during my grief's journey that I would never be happy again. Grief can bring that thought to mind yet I remember a time long ago when I believed doing the right thing in life would bring happiness as a bi product if I may. Grief allowed me to forget that for sorrow can be so severe that we just want the pain to end. Perhaps it could be as simple as getting back into the work of life and then tired at the end of day we can sit back and feel happy for what we have done. This reminds me of something my airplane mechanic said at the end of a very hard day of work that just took so much to get right. (I remember having quite a few cuts on my hands). He said "All in a days work" as he looked at my airplane with a very slight smile on his face, a smile I noticed. It took Kathy's death for me to realize I was here to evolve. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted December 6, 2017 Report Share Posted December 6, 2017 I had a SIL tell me yesterday that she was glad my life was so happy now. That surprised me! Although I miss George each and every day and carry a kind of sadness inside of me, apparently I project a feeling of happiness. Such is the oddity of grief, that both can coexist at the same time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted December 8, 2017 Report Share Posted December 8, 2017 Sharing this beautiful message just received from our dear friend and colleague, Peggy Haymes: Dear Marty, This fall, with the leadership of Chelsy Mitchell, the Novant Health Chaplains created our own version of the lovingkindness blessing. I have this blessing over my desk at the hospital, and have started the spiritual practice of focusing on one line each day. That line become my mantra, and I repeat it as I go about my day. It has become incredibly meaningful for me. I share it with you with the hopes that you may also find meaning and spiritual practice. May your way be delighted with unexpected blessings this season. Peggy May I be present May I know deep in my heart and bones that I am enough May I be a vessel of God's Spirit May I create space for healing, hope, and pause May I be a blessing May I creatively lean into the wild and precious life May I be joyous May the wisdom of God be with me May I truly rest May I be filled so I can pour myself out for others May I understand how much I am loved May I find Sabbath, Shabbat, and Shalom May I have more love May I find badly needed peace and healing May I bask in the glow of God's love May I live with authenticity and vulnerability May I be at peace with others *************************************** May you be present May you know deep in your heart and bones that you are enough May you be a vessel of God's Spirit May you create space for healing, hope, and pause May you be a blessing May you creatively lean into the wild and precious life May you be joyous May the wisdom of God be with you May you truly rest May you be filled so you can pour yourself out for others May you understand how much you am loved May you find Sabbath, Shabbat, and Shalom May you have more love May you find badly needed peace and healing May you bask in the glow of God's love May you live with authenticity and vulnerability May you be at peace with others ************************************** May all beings be present May all beings know deep in their heart and bones that they are enough May all beings be a vessel of God's Spirit May all beings create space for healing, hope, and pause May all beings be a blessing May all beings creatively lean into the wild and precious life May all beings be joyous May the wisdom of God be with all beings May all beings truly rest May all beings be filled so they can pour themselves out for others May all beings understand how much they am loved May all beings find Sabbath, Shabbat, and Shalom May all beings have more love May all beings find badly needed peace and healing May all beings bask in the glow of God's love May all beings live with authenticity and vulnerability May all beings be at peace with others 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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