6 weeks on from my mothers unexpected death.

[kayc]

It sounds like grief is causing you stress that's presenting in your stomach, I have known that feeling in my life!

I can assure you that a person could not take ten years of that intense pain from grief, yes it really does get better, as in more able to cope with it, but the missing them never does go away.  Keep doing your grief work, journal, read, post here, see a grief counselor, allow yourself tears, allow yourself smiles, it takes time and effort, grief is a lot of work!

[BethLD]

Kayc, 

thanks, I'm just so lost without here, life really has no purpose for me now - I'm not sucidal, there's just nothing there for me now. I have great friends and family and a fab support network but it's not what I need if you understand. 

Thank you very much for your advice ?.

x

[kayc]

Yes, I DO understand.