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Ann H.

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About Ann H.

  • Birthday 03/04/1947

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  • Date of Death
    December 19, 2008
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Animal Internal Medicine, San Diego CA

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  • Your gender
    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Southern California
  • Interests
    My pets, of course. Reading, movies, walking for exercise, getting together with friends.
  1. Marty, my condolences and prayers to you with the loss of Beringer. To lose a beloved pet is one of the hardest things, as they give us such unconditional love. He will forever be close to your heart. Hugs, Ann
  2. I I don't think you're being selfish. I would see what the Vet can do to help Rudy, as long as he is not suffering. You sound like you want to know you've done everything possible to help Rudy before saying good-bye.
  3. Hi, I live in an apartment and am limited on a burial in a yard. My 16 year old Siamese kitty passed away over two years ago. I had him cremated by Peaceful Paws. My Vet took care of the arrangements. Pet Paws had the ashes placed in a heartwarming little cedar chest and also made a pawprint. I have his ashes, pawprint, collar tag and one of his toys on one of his pink beds in a special place in my room. He loved that pink bed. It gives me comfort and I feel close to him. The The Monday Pet Loss Candle Ceremony that Marty T gave you is a very special place to memorialize your pet. My heartfelt condolences go out to you with the loss of your pet.
  4. I am so sorry for your loss. Sassie is beautiful., and how sad for you, as she was so young, too. I think losing a beloved pet is one of the hardest things to endure, as they give us such unconditional love. I lost my beloved Siamese boy kitty two years ago, and on the anniversary of his death it's so hard. My prayers are with you. Rest in peace sweet Sassy.
  5. Yes, Christa. definitely if you are thinking about an Animal communicator, do check out Marty's page above. I did contact an Animal Communicator, and it was one I got from Marty's page. There was a thread some time ago from someone who contacted an Animal Communicator. The Pet Loss support hotline I contacted had to close due to budget constraints in California. It was the University of California, Davis School of Veterinary Medicine. It was so helpful. It was veterinary students answering the phone. I called a few times, and just to hear a live voice understanding my loss meant so much. It helped me immensely. There are many other hotlines available. We all have regrets when our pet dies wondering what we could have done better, so you are not alone. I felt guilty because I thought I should have recognized the signs of illness in my cat, but they are masters at hiding any illness. I love the name Maggie, too. I named her after a very good friend. I understand what you mean; I wanted to name my next cat after the cat I lost over a year ago but wasn't sure either.
  6. Hi Maggie's Mom, I have a senior kitty, and her name is also Maggie. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a 16 year old heart kitty over a year ago, so I understand the loss. It takes time, and it is devastating. I had counseling thru a pet loss help line. Have you posted on the PetLoss board? there are many more posters there that will answer. This board is great, too, but I notice PeLoss is more active, forgive me Marty. Try posting there and check this board, too.
  7. Hi again, You're so welcome! I think your dream was an answer to prayer. I also had a dream about my heart kitty a couple weeks after he died. In the dream he jumped from my bed onto the floor and went into the bathroom. It seemeed so real I actually thought it was my other kitty, except she never ventured into the bathroom. I got up and my other kitty was asleep on my Lazy Boy! And another strange thing. My lamp was on in the living room, and I never leave a light on before going to bed, Strange! After that dream I felt my kitty was okay and I would be seeing him again. Binky's symptoms were probably starting to show. As I look back, my kitty was also slowing down and drinking a lot of water. When a neighbor came in to pet him, my cat actually nipped her hand, and that was very unusual. I think she must have touched him in a sensitive spot. Each day will get better for you. I did the same thing, second guessing my Vet and wishing I had never taken him for the exam. I know it's hard but try to think of some happy times. Take care.
  8. Hi, I am so sorry you lost your dog, Binky. I lost my heart kitty just a year ago, so I understand the deep loss and hole in the heart. I had something similar happen when I took him in for a Senior Exam. He was feeling fine and showing no symptoms. The Vet did find a tumor and handled/manipulated it plus did a needle aspiration. My kitty came home very ill and traumatized. I did contact the Vet with many questions which helped. It could have been a number of things as to why he came home so sick that day. He would have eventually showed the symptoms of cancer. I think you did what you felt was right for Binky. It was selfless, as you were only thinking of her and not wanting her to suffer. You had the courage to let her go and be released from the pain. It's not unusual to question yourself if it was the right decision. I did everything I could to help my 16 year old kitty fight intestinal lymphoma for seven months, but after he died, I wondered if I had put him thru too much with going back and forth to the Vet and taking his medicine. My condolences again go out to you.
  9. Hi Wyonna, I have thought about consulting with an animal communicator, but was going to try the other one you mentioned. This is so fascinating, but I was wondering how can you be sure that she's communicating with your pet. I guess I'm looking for more insight on how this works. Does this give your more closure since the consultation with her. Thanks for any information.
  10. CharlieGirl, I am so sorry and sad to hear about your puppy, and I'm sorry about the driver not stopping. I wish I were there in person to give you a big hug. It was a very unfortunate accident and not your fault. This is a good site. Keep yourself surrounded by people who will comfort and support you. Your husband sounds like he's trying to stay strong for you. In time the loving memories will return. It's such a shock and devastating right now. Marty may have some good websites with info to help you. God bless. Anna
  11. Thank you Shawna and a big hug back to you. I wanted to add that Sophie is beautiful. My boy cat was also a Siamese mix, mostly white with some blonde mixed in.
  12. Dear Sophie's Mom, I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my 16 year old boy kitty to Lymphoma about six months ago. He was everything to me, so I understand the devastation and grieving. You said your good-bye and hugged her before handing her to the Vet. She knew how much you loved her. Believe me when I tell you that your courage did not fail you, as I believe you are very courageous in making the decision to let her go and not suffer. She will be forever in your heart. Take care and God bless.
  13. Thanks for the detailed info Marty. It gets confusing sometimes when we hear the recalls, so this sure helps. Have a great weekend. Ann
  14. Dana, I am so sorry for your loss of Beau. I can see how much you loved and cared for him. I lost my 16 year old heart kitty to intestinal lymphoma just four months ago. I truly believe we will see our beloved pets again. Rest in Peace little Beau.
  15. Thanks Andy. Fancy Feast was the only food Mikey would eat when he got sick. The Vet said to let him eat what he wants as he was terminal, and it was important for him to eat. I was always running to the pet store for more FF. He was actually waking me up every two hours for food, and I would get up and feed him. He mostly sucked the juice and always got some on his face. I think I was in shock the first month and thought maybe I was handling it alright, but then the pain and grief really hit me. I'm so sorry about your son having a hard time. It's good he's talking about Oscar and not holding back. Ann
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