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yorky

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About yorky

  • Birthday January 2

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  • Date of Death
    5th october
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    NA

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    Female
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    Yorkshire UK
  1. I would like to say thank you to the messages posted here it does help to know that I am not alone in my feelings although it is so terribly sad to think that many other elderly parents and thier family are having to cope with the ordeal. I pray that maybe by making that complaint heard it could improve the care given by the people we trust to care for our mothers and fathers. Thank you again for words of comfort x
  2. I lost my dear Mum on the 10th of last month, although she was a good age as people keep telling me how do I cope without my best friend and mother, she was always there at the end of the phone - to listen to my moaning and silly tales.I think I expected the end was near 3 months ago when I got the call but she managed to pull through although very frail . I had made plans to care for her at home but it was never to be she passed away in hospital. I'm finding the anger so difficult to deal with . If she had had the correct medical and basic nursing care which any elderly person has the right to she would be at home with my Dad now. We have made a formal complaint to the hospital and it is been dealt with but now I can feel angry at anyone who seems to me to be insensitive. I just wondered if anyone else has had to deal with a similar situation?.
  3. [Thank you for your posts it does help to know that someone else can understand.I think that these precious little friends are angels sent to us on loan for some reason and that we will meet them again one day. Take care.
  4. Thank you for this site, it is just what I need . I feel that I 'm going out of my mind with grief my husband and friends can't help me I try to talk things through with them but they will not or can not understand . My daughter had four little dogs Mum Dad and two pups , I have always helped to care for them when she has had to go out to work right from the moment that she was born little Kiki seemed so special and I know it sounds silly but we bonded. She was my little ray of sunshine in a very difficult time. Last week because of aggressive oral cancer she had to be put to sleep.I know she didn't really belong to me yet in a way she did. I can not understand why such a gentle and wonderful little sole should have to be taken away she was with us for only 18months.
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