I lost my dear Mum on the 10th of last month, although she was a good age as people keep telling me how do I cope without my best friend and mother, she was always there at the end of the phone - to listen to my moaning and silly tales.I think I expected the end was near 3 months ago when I got the call but she managed to pull through although very frail . I had made plans to care for her at home but it was never to be she passed away in hospital. I'm finding the anger so difficult to deal with . If she had had the correct medical and basic nursing care which any elderly person has the right to she would be at home with my Dad now. We have made a formal complaint to the hospital and it is been dealt with but now I can feel angry at anyone who seems to me to be insensitive. I just wondered if anyone else has had to deal with a similar situation?.