Her reasons weren't clear. She suffered sexual abuse as a child and never told her parents. This led to issues of trust. Something triggered her, I don't know what. 'but she distanced herself over a period of a couple of weeks, and then called one night to say it was over. She would not talk to me about it. Six years of a family, and engagement, ended with a phone call. This was ten months ago and I am in pain every day. I cry almost every day, sometimes complete meltdowns where I sob and an hour or more. I am seeing a therapist, working on it. But I feel haunted and the pain never goes away.