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Eli05GT1

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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    Son
  • Date of Death
    4/30/18
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    NA

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    Male
  • Location (city, state)
    Port Saint Lucie
  1. Hello Everyone, I always thought that I would be burying my parents when they are old and gray, but I found out we have no age limit. I just lost my dad 5 day's ago and I miss him so much. My heart is so empty right now I can barely get through my day's. My dad was 57 year's young and The Lord called his name. My dad did have health problems early in his life, he had diabetes, COPD, and heart issue and he was very overweight. For the past few years my mother sister and I have tried to get my dad to fix his ways, to stop smoking and try to live a healthy life. He was a very stubborn person and always put things off , he would only go to the hospital if it was very serious, I think everything just caught up to him over the years and ended up having a massive heart attack, with my sister found my dad in the bedroom. We are very saddened over the situation and I don't know how to deal with it, of course I lost grandparents but never my mom and dad. I just hope he isn't in anymore pain, and is watching over us, especially his three-year-old grandson who he loved very much. We just we just did our final goodbyes last night and when I try to be strong for my mother and my sister ended up breaking down I feel like we should have done more to help him, I feel like we just gave up. Any advice on how to cope and deal with this I would appreciate it. I understand is the easy to lose a parent at such a young age.😥😥 Thanks, Eli
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