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  1. It's so final. There's nothing anyone can do. It's done. And that's the rub. From the time we are old enough to understand - we know there is death. It's in every Disney Story - Bambi, Dumbo, Cinderella, Lion King (all of them): think about it. So, we've always known; since the beginning of time, people die. How is it then that I have been so sheltered from the reality of what grief really is? How did I miss the heartache that attaches to a great love lost? I've read the classics. I understood the plot, theme, and tone. Yet I missed the point completely. And now, I type to a message board to talk to others who know. And what choice have we but to accept? That's the part that creates the frustration. The part that blocks the healing. It's the finality of something so far from our control and the inevitability of it all. It’s happening again, right now, to some poor unsuspecting soul. There it is –hear it? Someone just shrieked "NOOOOOOOOO" And they are not accepting the inevitable finality that is woven into every life. Life is uncertain. Death is inevitable. Accept it.
  2. Lynda, thank you for writing to me. Thank you for reaching out. I've found a live chat-room that I'm telling as many about as I can. Someone told me about it. It's http://healingafterloss.org They have many rooms, but I've only been to one - the main room. There are so many who have experienced a loss, and they are so loving. It's private and it's safe, and it's free. The registering thing was wierd for me, but everything is strange right now. It has been great to be able to talk to people in real-time. To have someone tell me they are sorry, to have someone send me a hug. At first I felt out of place, because so many had experienced their loss some time ago. But they do help, because they do know. There is a schedule for hosted rooms, too. I've not done that yet. But they have rooms for widows, or people who have lost children - just about what ever one might imagine. I'm hoping to find you and a few others in the chat room sometime, soon. You reached out to me first and I feel a connection. I'm trying to figure this all out. I'm trying not to go crazy. I'm trying to deal with loniliness. I miss my sweet husband more each moment. The pain grows - my heartache swells, and I want him back. Trying to cope, Lissa
  3. Skyhigh, I sent you a private email. I hope to hear from you and others. I'm lost. Lissa
  4. Hello - this is so difficult. My husband, of almost three years, died in my arms at 2:30 AM on December 20, 2003. It was quite unexpected and a result of a blood clot that traveled to his heart. He had been recovering from a minor surgery that had taken place just four days earlier. I am a private person, in most cases, but I feel that I need to hear from others who have been through this heartbreak. My marriage was magical. My husband was my best friend. I'm so lost. Lissa
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