To Deborah_*' post='3198' date='Jan 1 2006, 07:34 PM'] I have the same feelings you have, all through the house are reminders of our 41 years together. My husband was sick for so long but his death came so sudden towards the end. I keep his Old Spice open in the room he was in so I can smell his presence. I know we have to go on with our lives, and even though I knew he was dying and his body was giving out, I still wasn't ready. It is hard not to dwell on all the things we did wrong, instead of all the things we did right. I too, wonder if he knew I was with him and how much I loved him and would miss him. I know how hard it is to try to eat, and just go about my everyday living. I was hoping things would get easier, but by your posting I think it will be a long process. Lets keep our loved ones in our hearts, knowing they are at peace. Sometimes it is hard to be the one left behind. God Bless, Susan