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Annie

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About Annie

  • Birthday 01/04/1962

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    polarbear969@hotmail.com
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    peapod1962@yahoo.com

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  • Location (city, state)
    puyallup,Wa
  • Interests
    Drawing and Painting..Animals and birds,,,Gardening...Most kinda of music

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  1. Happy Birthday to you,

    Happy Birthday to you,

    Happy Birthday, Dear Annie,

    Happy Birthday to you

  2. Thank You Shannon.....I am sorry to hear of your loss too...It does help to know I am not the only one feeling overwhelmed and that someone kinda understands...I never knew I could cry this much..geesh...Sometimes I just want to talk and talk and talk and get all the feelings out, and sometimes I just have no words to say at all...this whole thing is a new expierence to me.....Thank You again for your reply.........It helps ......
  3. Hello there..I am brand new to this site and not sure if I am doing this right...My father died suddenly of a heart attack Last November,,(2002)...My 96 yr old grandma was in the hospital at the time recouperating from a surgery she was not suppose to make it thru...My mom's birthday was 2 days after his death...and she was scheduled for laser eye surgery the day after her birthday... I have two sisters and for the first few months we all seemed to be working together to go thru what we all needed to go thru as far as paperwork and taking care of both my mom and grandma,,,,The middle sister , who , we have had drug problems with in the past went whacky on us and tried to physically hurt both my mom and grandma ...She was staying with my grandma but we had her physically removed from the residence and she is now out of the area...I am selling my home and moving into the house with my mom and grandma..We just recently moved mom in there as she was over an hour away from my sister and I and not doing well healthwise herself...From November till now I have tried to deal with my emotions pretty much alone..My sister has a family of her own so she has pretty much been busy there...I have close friends who have tried to help, but it just doesnt seem to help much...I still would like to just hide away from the world sometimes..I am so tired ..i do not seem to have alot of hope anymore for my future..I am not suicidal but just sad still alot of the time...I try to keep up a good front in public and while at work...I feel overwhelmed with taking care of both grandma and mom and trying to move my things down there and work both jobs I have and clean my moms old house so we can sell it.....My sister is helping alot so its not like I am doing it all alone but still i feel overwhelmed...I feel like I am suppose to be so strong but feel anything but strong still.....It slike someone pulled the rug out from under my life and I have been walking on sand ever since...With November coming up again i find myself feeling yukky all over again....I havent been to see anyone professionally or taken any medication ..I do not know how much of what i am feeling is normal for grief or not...This is the first death I have really dealt with..My grandfather died when I was young and I dont remember too much about the whole thing...My grandmother's doctor has told us she has calcium built up on a major heart valve and will not probably make it thru christmas...Her death will not be such a shock as we have watched her slowly slip away healthwise , but still the thought of her now dieing too bothers me...Sorry if I just kinda dumped here,,There just seems like there is soo much to explain ...I am hoping there will be someone who can help me thru this as I cant do this alone anymore....Well thank you for your time ...Anita ( I am 41 and my father was 71..)
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