Hi, yes i have had a hard couple of years. thankyou for writing me.I had them living in a inlaw apartment off my home now we are trying to fix it up so we can rent it . My husband is in more of a rush than me it's too hard just yet. I told him that but i wasnt working while i was caring for them and we need another income to keep things a floate here. I am trying to push myself for my kids and my husband because they feel so helpless that they cant help me .How about you how are you ?? talk soon jill .