Hi everybody, I am a widow twice. I know about unfinished plans too. My second husband and I had plans. We talked about traveling... discussed it a lot while we were dating. Then, after our marriage on Valentines Day 2009, our time ran out. He died ten days later, and we never had a chance to travel together. I'm not much of a traveler by myself, because I get lost so easily and it scares me. But I've purchased a Garmin GPS, and I've been practicing some freeway driving close to home. And... I've started taking some short day trips to attractions that aren't real far away. I've even stayed overnight once in Prescott AZ. This is all new to me, and accomplishing the "art of travel" makes me feel proud. I wanted to honor my dear man this way, to still travel like we were going to do together. It is almost like we are together as I learn to find my way around. If you want to, you could read more about my travel attempts in my blog, MR. G. AND ME. (see website addresses below.) from ELHG (MY WIDOW'S WALK - http://my-widows-walk.blogspot.com/ ) (MR. G. AND ME - http://mrgandme-elhg.blogspot.com/ )