chasjill

My wife and I travel a lot so it would be really hard to join a support group but thanks for the advice. Thats why I have joined a few email support groups like this so I can stay in touch while on the road. I have been in contact with frieinds who have also lost loved ones and talking with them seems to help the most. I have a couple of Pastors who have stayed in touch with me as well. It seems I am learning to just make decisions sometimes to not be sad and to try to look at the positive side of my son being in heaven and reaching the ultimate goal that we all will eventually enter. Now that doesn't always stop the sadness of missing him and the tears still flow freely but it does help. I guess I'm realizing that there is absolutely nothing I can do to change this his passing so I have to figure out a way to move forward in a healthy manner and think positive again. I know he is blessed and as one person said moving on with my life is not like moving away from Him but it is moving towards Him because He is n my future

Thanks Kath, My wife, Jill and I are getting through it but it is really hard. Thanks for your prayers as we all trudge through these difficult times together. PS. to add to it my father passed just a couple month after my son. Stretched on both sides but we are leaning on God's grace more than ever.

Grieving!!!!