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ulver101

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  • Date of Death
    May 28 2009
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Hospice of the Valley
  1. I, too am new to mourning, 6 weeks tomorrow. Andy and I were "lucky" enough to have time to talk about what he wanted to happen if he died( I was the one who kept saying if). He wanted cremation and NO FUSS!. I took most of his ashes to England to scatter in his birthplace, as per his request. I really believe that whether we bury or cremate our loved ones, their real memorial is in our hearts. I hope you find peace, just as I hope I do, Sue
  2. I have just passed the five week anniversary of my husband's death. It has been surreal, a whirlwind of activity, hardly time to think, feeling numb. Just came back home on Friday after taking his ashes to his birthplace in England, hoping to help his mom by having a simple family memorial. Now I'm home, it's July 4th weekend, the house is empty, the sympathy cards are still here. I feel like I'm finally beginning to realize Andy's gone. You're right, it feels unbearable. I'm hoping this site will help me eventually come to terms with his death. Sue
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