granny14

I lost my husband of over 55 years on May 2nd. I was in the same boat. I cared for him through the lung and then bone cancer, through all the treatments, and last two months 24 hour care at home. After falling he was put in the hospital and passed away after a week and a half. I never left the hospital unless a daughter was there so I could run home and clean up and then go back again. I would have done anything for that man, but all I could do was be there for him and try to get him to eat, drink, and take pills, which he finally refused to do. He knew it was over I think. My thoughts and prayers are with you Nats. I feel like I have no life any more even tho I have a large caring family...

It was a week ago I finally went through my husbands closet. Several grand daughters, and all my daughters had taken shirts and jackets of his to keep. I kept a couple shirts. It had comforted me having them hang there for a while, but when I cleaned it out, realized---HE REALLY IS GONE. Was a rough time. My mom got rid of my dad's stuff the day after he passed away. I could not do that....Peace to everyone.