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Korina, I also along with nicoles mom and dad had to come to the decision to take her off life support. We were told there was nothing they could do and if by some miracle she made it that she wouldnt be the same peron that we once knew. That really weighs heavy on my mind, but we both had always said we did not want to live if something ever happened and we would be in a "coma-like state of mind" I have never told anyone that right before she died (I had been holding her hand and talking to her since they let us see her,) she squeezed my hand for just a millisecond because I knew they would just say it was muscles twitching. but i hope and pray everyday that was telling me we did the right thing. thank you korina for sharing....

thank you, and yes I have custody and I have a wonderful family that are willing to do anything above and beyond to help me. I really dont want alot of help with her though because I am determined to raise her on my own because I feel like I need to be with her every moment and give her my everything. My mom usually wants to get her on saturday nights so she can take her to church on sundays which is a little me time but I really think about things alot when Im alone. I have never really been a church going person but I do believe in god and think one day i will go but when Im ready and not pushed into going. thanks again....

thank you everyone for your kind words and for sharing your own personal experiences with tragedy. I am sorry for each of your losses. It really does help to know that I am not alone and to hear words of wisdom from people who are or have been through the same thing. My daughter is probably the only thing that has helped me keep my sanity and hold things together. I really cant imagine where I would be or doing if she wasnt here to keep me busy and a reason to live. Again, thank you everyone......

hello, I came across this site just looking for people that are coping with the death of there partner and how they are dealing with it. I lost my fiance whom I had been with for 2 1/2 years in a car accident on 6-9-10. we just had a baby girl on 5-23-10 who was a month early. I had to move out of the house we were living in because everything I looked at reminded me of her. I think about her every minute of everyday and my stomach feels like when your riding a rollercoaster everytime i think of the accident and holding her hand and kissing her when she passed away in the hospital bed. dont really know what to expect, do or how to deal with it. she was 26 years old! why do these things happen to good people? I question religion everyday! why would god take a newborns mother away? thanks for letting me vent......