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misswavy

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About misswavy

  • Birthday 10/31/1956

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  • Date of Death
    June 6, 2010
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
    Laramie WY

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  1. Anytime, How are you? (:

  2. Bec, so sorry to hear of your loss! You are in my thoughts1 Hang in there and never give up!
  3. Hi Beck! Thanks for the birthday wish! Hope all is well with you!

  4. My first birthday without my mom (she died June 6 of ths year) is coming up this Sunday. I am not looking forward to it at all. She was always the first one to call me and she always picked out a very special card for me every year. I found the card from last year and keep reading it over and over because she had some very special words for me. Its like she knew it was her last card to me. I am taking baby steps and trying to get through it. I know my dad and my husband and daughters will be there for me, but I miss my mom so very much at times like this! She was my hero and inspiration!
  5. Sorry for your loss Christine. I'm not sure if it will get easier for a long time if ever, I think we just learn to adjust. I lost my mom June 6, 2010 and I still cry alot. I can't believe I still have so many tears, but she was my best friend and she loved me unconditionally and I could go to her for anything. For about the last week I have really needed her to help me through a situation with my daughter and I want to pick up the phone or go visit her and ask her what do do. And you are right no one that hasn't lost their mom doesn't have a clue. They think we should be fine and that we should be normal and over it! I'm still so emotional, if someone looks at me wrong I get upset! Hang in there! Take it a day at a time, that's about all we can do!
  6. So sorry niamh. I know you're feelings. It will be 4 months tomorrow since my mom passed away. It really is not easier, I am just learning to adjust my life without her! I'm lucky to still have my dad. I haven't heard from hardly anyone since the day of the funeral. Before that when my mom was sick (the last 3 weeks of her life) it was a revolving door at her house. Only about two or three people have called me and only one person visited my dad. The day of the funeral my aunt who works for hospice told me that they would have us over in July for a picnic. I've never even heard from her at all! It is very lonely and empty in this world without my mom. I know I have to go on because my mom would want me to but is the hardest thing I have ever had to do! Hugs and prayers to you! Hang in there!
  7. Patty, i know exactly how you feel. I lost my mom in June and yes she was 87 and had been in poor health for a while, but it still hurts just as bad. You being her main caregiver is hard since you were with her everyday! They keep telling me it will get better after we've gone through all the seasons, so basically a year. I think we learn to adjust but the pain and emptiness will always be with us. My mom was my best friend also and I miss her so much. I use to call her everyday and go visit her since we were in the same town.
  8. This sounds EXACTLY how I feel. I lost my mom 3 months ago also, and I know my life will never be the same or feel normal again. I am in a very hard place right now and NO ONE GETS ME! I feel so lost and empty. Some days I feel like I just go throug the motions, which I'm sure I do. The people on here are so understanding and kind! I think we will just learn to adjust, but we will never be the same again!
  9. It will be 3 months on Monday, Sept. 6 since my mom left us. I still feel so lost and empty without her, but I have no choice but to go to work, mingle with my family, etc. No one at works ever brings it up either. Its as if nothing has happened to me mentally and emotionally, but they don't understand. I read someplace where we have to go through all the seasons (so basically a year) and our grieving may become somewhat better. I am dreading winter and Christmas, but somehow with God's strength we will get through it all. I feel so horrible for my dad since they werer married for 58 1/2 years and he was basically her care giver. That breaks my heart so I'm trying to be strong for him. Sometimes being strong is SO HARD! Hang in there! This site sure has helped me to know there's other people going through this.
  10. Missing my mom more and more every day!

  11. There is no time limit as to how long one can grieve! After all they are our parents! You are not acting like a baby and its not something we can just snap out of! I know people probably think I'm crazy too, but I lost my mom in June and I don't think I will get over it for a very long time, if ever. My whole life has changed! People on here understand though! Take it a day at a time and cry when you have to! As for sleeping,I finally had to get some med from the doctor. It does help. Maybe you can join a support group through hospice in your town or see a grief counselor! Sending hugs your way!
  12. May God Bless you and your family and give you the strength you need to get through today! You are not alone!
  13. I lost my mom June 6 and I feel SO LOST and EMPTY! She was my best friend, my mentor and my inspiration. She was 87 yrs old and had been on dialysis for 1 1/2 years and never complained about it. She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer right after Christmas last year, so by the middle of May it was getting pretty bad and she made the decision to go off dialysis. I took care of her the last 3 weeks of her life and that was some comfort. Everyone told me how strong I was, but when it was all said and done I feel apart about 3 weeks after her death! I can't eat or sleep. My stomach is always in knots and no one seems to really care. I get the same thing, well she lived a long life! That's what makes it even harder is because I had her for so long and now she's just gone and I really could use her advice and wisdom right now with other things going on in my family! I cry at least 1-4 times a day at any little thing and my emotions are just totally out of control. I'm so glad to have found this site
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