Hi there everyone how are you? my nightmare started in october last year when my husband came home from working away for 3 months, he did did not feel well but just thought it was the flu, i urged him to go to the dr, the results were spots on the liver and shadows on the lungs. At the hospital we were told it was an incureable cancer one of the worst we did 12 weeks of chemo and results showed cancer had growen biger, and we were told to go home and prepare to die, with hoispce, sister myself, and by brother, our two children 6 and 10 were able to care from him at home and he passed away at home in bed at 11am on the 11th of may 2010. It was very hard on the kids and i becase i became a caregiver and not a wife as my husband became beridden fast the cancer was all in his spine and you name it it was everywhere.
Anyway we are coping ok i guess but after being with him for 25 years what is one to do now??? i am really LOST.
thank you