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Dar W

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About Dar W

  • Birthday 05/31/1955

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  • Date of Death
    April 5, 2010
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    no

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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    Michigan
  1. I couldn't said it any better than you did, I feel the same way, I loss my husband Paul six month ago, I go to work and come home sit, no one call or comeover. I'm told to get a life or learn and do thing by myself.I because upset today because I have a lot of thing that needs to be gone in the yard and house before winter get here ( I live in Michigan) some of it I just can't do by myself but I can't get anyone to help me. I guess I will get done what I can and the others things will not get done. I wish people would just understand that this not a easy time for us. we had our husband to help and to do thing with and now we don't. I guess its hard to understand how we feel because they don't and can feel our pain. My prayer are with you, and thank you for letting me know you and other feel the same way do.
  2. I know how you are feeling, I lost my husband Paul in April of this year. I still feel the way you do. I didn't leave the house all weekend except to get some food. I was in my pj all weekend to. It's ok, I cry alot and leave party early or just don't go. this is a very hard time for you right now. do what you need to make it thought each day. I don't leave the house because it's just to hard to come home alone. you are the only one who know how you feel. do what you can to get thought each day.take care of your self
  3. I talk to Paul every day, I tell him good morning and good night, We would call each other several times a day, we would call each just to tell each other that we would be home in a few minutes. I honk three time when I left for work each morning(That was my way to tell him one more time that I Love You). I still honking each morning just tell him I Love You. I know he can hear me. I was waiting to call him at 10:00 a.m. the morning he die, but I got the phone call at 9:53 am that he was gone. I miss hearing him, and feeling his touch. It's ok to talk to him. Any time or any place. we can't forget or stop love them because they are gone.
  4. I know how your feel, I loss my husband Paul on April 5, 2010. I hate going out because I have to come home alone, I can't see couple together. They look so happy and I'm not a couple any more. This Sunday Sept. 26, would of been our #29 wedding annv. I don't eat or sleep much. I go to work and come home to a enpty house. I'm been told it will get better, but I don't how is will. But I'm learning how to take each day as it come. and so can you. I'm finding out that I can never forget my Dear Paul or can you forget your husband. but we can go on with our life the way they would wanted us to. Take care of yourself the best you can and find out to help you out. Cry when you need to and laught when you can. You are in prayer and thought.
  5. Dear Friend, Thank you all for caring words. I loss Paul on April 5, 2010. He was 49 on Jan 6 and I'm was 55 in May. we have 3 grown children and 5 wonderful grandkids. Paul was and still is a loving husband, father and papa. He left our home at 3:30 am to on a fishing trip with our son Jason and a family friend. we talk to each other before he left and he kiss me goodbye he went out to get some last minutes thing done, but he came back into our bedroom and told me he needed another kiss and we told each other that we love you, He left and a short time later I heard someone outside. so I called him to see why he came back home. He forgot some fishing stuff and he didn't want to wake me so he didn't come into the house. again we told each other I love you, have a good day and see you later. that was the last time that I talked to him. I was waiting to call him to see how the fishing was going ( I alway waited until 10:00 am to call) But now I wish I wouldn't waiting. because Jason called me at 9:53 and told me Paul was gone. Heart attach. I can't on any more for now. I'm feeling to much pain in writing all of this. But again Thank you all, Darlene
  6. I feel your pain and know how you feel. I didn't get to tell my husband good bye, but I get to tell him I love you and kisses him before he went fishing(April 5, 2010) he had a heart attach. I still think some days he going walk in the door.
  7. I loss my Husband Paul April 5, 2010. I need to be able to talk to other who know how I feel. help
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