Tea,
You have gone through quite alot (losing your dad, dog, house and mother in such a short time) to be "over it" already. Your husband is out of his mind..... frankly, I hope your marriage doesn't end over your husband's insensitivity. My mom died in February after a 2.5 year battle w/ Stage 4 cancer and I still have periods of crying spells. This is 7 mos. later and I still have my dad, house and cats. If I lost all of that within a few months, I have no idea how I would have functioned. This site too has really helped me alot. I had to go on anti-depressants for awhile which helped.... but frankly, this site has been a major help. I too like knowing that other people go through such tremendous grief (although, not fun for them, I don't wish this on anyone) but nice to not feel so alone.
Re: your friends outpouring of support, turn to them instead of your husband. Turn to anybody that will give you the attention you need right now and you will get "over it" when your mind and body are ready to.