I also lost my mother and my husband very suddenly. my mother was given an overdoes of insulin by a nurse in march 2009 she died nine days later after being in a coma. my husband was sitting next to me watching tv 5 months(aug 2009) later and just fell over and he was gone. I had just lost my father the thanksgiving before that. I have been in a state of shock I guess you could say. If it weren't for my children, my aunts and my church I would not be here still. this happened in 2009 and I can't even remember christmas that year. It has only been since I started back to work in Feb. that I have made anykind of sense. I still cry all the way home from work cause I know he won't be there.. I have been told there is no right or wrong way to express your grief, that everyone is different. I know it sure helps to talk about it. I feel like I have lost a whole life and now I don't know how to start over nor do I want to. I tried a support group at a church but I think online is better cause I start crying when people talk to me about it. It's easier to type.
