Hi,
I need some advice. I am new here.
One year ago today, I lost my 18-year-old cat Tigger, to advanced renal failure. She had to be put to sleep during one of the worst times of my life. Two months before Tigger's passing, my spouse who had become addicted to pain killers and alcohol beat me up and went to jail. After that, I filed for divorce. The decision to that was difficult. Two weeks later, Tigger was diagnosed with advanced renal failure. I was not able to stay in my home at night, because my now ex and a friend of his, were stirring up trouble, I greatly feared what they would do. I spent the days with Tigger, and left her at night, I always prayed that she would live the night, and greet me in the morning. I felt then, and still feel tremendous guilt for leaving Tigger at night.
Today is the one year anniversary of Tigger's passing. I still miss her so much. My ex upon learning about my still being sad over Tigger's passing told mutual friends, I was not normal for still being sad over losing "just a cat", as he put it. My question to you all, am I wrong for still hurting over losing a cherished member of my family? How long is it appropriate to grieve for the loss of treasured fur friend?
Best,
Chris
