angela_uk

Hi Linda Thank you for you'r reply.As far as im aware his eldest son doesnt have any intrest in the ashes.Its my partners mother saying they now belong to the eldest son ( I think she wants the eldest son to *claim* them from me,So he can give them to her,Yes im in the uk too,There wasnt many possissions,I have sent some personal belongings over already to the 4 children in Germany,My partners motorbike was sold and helped to pay towards the funeral,which i also paid for,I also currently have the ashes here with me its been 11 months and i dont feel ready to let him go yet,But my partners mother is using threats to try and make me, Angela

Hi who ever may read and help me .... I was wondering about my partners ashes,We were together 3 years but not married and have a daughter together,He had 4 other children from previous relationships in germany, 18 yr old (was 17 at the time my partner passed away) 17, 9 and 7,Their mothers wanted nothing to do with the funeral and i myself delt with it all and still have my partners ashes, Now My partners mother has been in touch saying now his son has turned 18 the ashes now legally belong to him? and also all of my partners possissions?please could you advise if this is correct thank you