i'm not a person who asks for help, or advice often, but the internet is a big help in this instance. yesterday, i had to say goodbye to my best friend, a scruffy terrier, Holly, who was only 8. i am 47 y o , married, with several children and a responsible job. not many friends, i keep myself to myself really, and get on with life. we had a border collie already [who is 14 now and going strong], and after my previous dogs had sadly passed on in 2002 we decided to go to a rescue centre and take on a couple of pups. we took home Daisy, a black gawd knows what terrier, and Holly, a staffie cross. it wasn't all plain sailing, they had some serious fights, but were best friends really. and although i've had several dogs as friends before, Holly and i had something special. a proper friend, i don't have many human friends, so i valued her loyalty very highly. around 2 months ago she developed a limp on a back leg, i took her to the vet, a brilliant guy. he did an x ray and to our shock, diagnosed bone cancer. the disease advanced quickly, quicker than i believed it could. a dog who was jumping around & play biting a few weeks earlier was now on borrowed time. more recently a bad cough was evident. the vet said secondary cancer had spread to the lungs. this week, her breathing was shorter, and the cough was there all the time, somtimes with specks of blood. i know, and you know that this had got to be the end. the family and our vet agreed, so yesterday i went there and did the most difficult thing a rough, tough man, who isn't afraid of anyone, or anything, has to do, i cried like a baby for hours, and will do again shortly . and now? i'm destroyed. i feel empty. the other 2 dogs are ok, they are good pets, but not the same. my best friend has gone, and life seems empty. i am sad, and angry at the same time. i drove past a church, and swore at god for letting me down, as he has, again, so he's out, for the forseeable. i feel like starting a fight, anytime and anyone will do. i'm not well, and i know it. please give me some guiding words ny friends...