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Lynnettem123

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  1. I have lost two sons to Cancer. One 14 years ago at age 11 and one 2 years ago at age 7. I have dreams about the son I lost two years ago but never see his face. I see the back of him and he is always running away and when I get a glimpse of him it is the face of my son that died 14 years ago. I am wondering if anyone has had the same issue. I would like to know if this is an issue that is common. Journey on Online grief social network The journey of Loss
  2. I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost two boys to cancer one at age 11 and one age 7. I try to not envy others but I look at my friends and relative and wonder why have I lost two and they have all healthy boys. I know it is wrong but I still ask the questions. I look at people out in public and see them being mean to their kids and think why did have to loss two boys I adored. I was or tried to be a great mom. I know there is a answer but I will not know why in this life. I feel guilty feeling that way but it is hard not to. I find that some of my friends that called all the time don't call anymore. I feel so alone without my kids but feel out on an island because my friends don't call either. I think they don't know what to say and feel bad it they say something that makes me tear up. They say I am sorry but it wasn't them who made me sad it is missing my boys. I think it all take time. Journey On Journey of Loss Blog Online grief support social network
  3. When you lose a child your heart breaks into a million pieces forever. The heartache and sadness in no way ends when you leave the cemetery. In most cases it is just beginning. Everyone goes on with their lives and time keeps moving forward. You just want to scream "My son just died and I just want the world to stop and realize that". Your heart is broken to pieces and there is a hole in your chest and everyone just goes about their life. Grief is a journey and it takes a long time before you start to heal. I went to a mother's bereavement weekend at Faith's Lodge in Danbury last weekend. What I realize is that we just want to talk about our kids and tell their stories. Now the people in our live don't want to keep hearing the stories over and over after two years. Our friends think we should move on and may tell us so anytime we bring up our kids who have died. I think our biggest heartache is that our children who have died will be forgotten. I am hoping to help people deal with grief and that is my tribute to my children. Just keep moving forward not matte how hard it seems. I have lost two one 14 years ago at age 11 and one 2 years ago at age 7 both of cancer. I don't think my life will every be the same no matter how much time has passed. The loss of a child is a journey that last a lifetime.
  4. When I lost my son my heart breaks into a million pieces forever. The heartache and sadness in no way ends when you leave the cemetery. In most cases it is just beginning. Everyone goes on with their lives and time keeps moving forward. You just want to scream "My son just died and I just want the world to stop and realize that". Your heart is broken to pieces and there is a hole in your chest and everyone just goes about their life. Grief is a journey and it takes a long time before you start to heal. I went to a mother's bereavement weekend at Faith's Lodge in Danbury last weekend. What I realize is that we just want to talk about our kids and tell their stories. Now the people in our live don't want to keep hearing the stories over and over after two years. Our friends think we should move on and may tell us so anytime we bring up our kids who have died. I think our biggest heartache is that our children who have died will be forgotten. I am hoping to help people deal with grief and that is my tribute to my children. Just keep moving forward not matte how hard it seems. Journey On Online Grief Support Social Network The Journey of Loss Blog
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