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Kimmer20

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  1. I have this exact same feeling...people have expected me to be over losing my little sister since I came back to school almost. They want it to be done and over because I was like the "mom" of our group that I hang out with. It's a new semester which has opened a whole new can of "I'm not over it" since my professors may or may not know. I do wonder if she was scared, if she was hurting, if she felt alone, if she suffered, if she waited for help to get there. I hope she wasn't scared and I can assume she didn't hurt too bad because when we got her jeans and hoodie back they didn't have blood stains. Of course we didn't get her t-shirt back either and I know she had to have one on. I wonder what happened and how it happened so often. I guess I know that at 11 months I still won't be over it and that's okay. I don't know how to get over this. It isn't like I feel down and it will heal in a few weeks.
  2. I have no words of advice to offer, but to tell you I've had almost those exact same dreams and feel the same way. You aren't alone. My sister was killed in a car accident not even 3 months ago and in my dreams I have had to tell her and try to explain to her why she is dead. And the new thing is that she did die but she was able to come back to life and we all just accept it and love her and are so happy to have her back. I can't sleep in the dark...I do better at home because I can have my TV on. My roommate hates noise so I have to tough it out when I'm at school. So all I can say is, you aren't alone.
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