Hopeful22

I am so sorry of the loss of your loving husband. I know how taough it can be, it is not really easy, no one should blame you, he was your soulmate and you can't just get over the pain and loss in a short period of time. Take your time, cry whene you need to, let everything out, it is a process of grieve. I lost my 33 years old brother in a bus crash on November 13/2010, the same month as your spouse, I cant tell you the pain I am feeling right now, it is more than how I felt when I heard the news, it is like when time pass and I realize that I will never see my loving brother again I just cry like a crazy, It is like adream I still cant beleive I will NEVER see him again.WOW it is painful. For me I still cant look at his things because I feel I am not ready yet, and if I do now I am going to get really sick emotionaly. I want to learn to live my life along all the memories that we shared. It is not an easy thing to lose someone you love, only time alone can ease the pain a liitle but you never forget about the person. So hold on my friend and take care of yourself because I am sure he wants you to be that way.

I am a sister who lost a 33 years old brother in a bus crash on Novemeber 2010, My brother stayed in a coma for 2 weeks he couldnt survive because the brain was damaged. He was my friend, he was there for me all the time, we were really close and he was so speciall in the family, I just cant forget him and I still can't beleive he is gone for ever, it is like a piece of me is gone with him, I feel so empty inside and nothing seems to fill that. I cry everyday I miss him so badly, I despite the bus driver because of his careless driving 19 people are dead and he survived. all I can say is losing someone you care about it is the most toughest experience ever. I am just hoping to learn to live my life along with all the good memories that we shared. Thank you all for being here to listen !