Hello to all--My wife of 40 years passed on from the physical plane 6 months ago, two days after the fukishima disaster. Since then, I've gone through many ups and downs, which will go on probably for the rest of my life.
I've had a lot of contact with my wife since her departure from this world. These contacts have been in dreams and waking state. As time passes, I'm working with the task of realizing the raw truth the she is no longer with me on the physical plane, and also realizing that our relationship lives on. I am a human being dwelling on earth and subject to earthly realities, there is no doubt about that fact. But could it be possible that all there is , is what is right in front of us while we are awake. I highly doubt that notion. Don't confuse the brain,the mind and the soul or spirit. The brain is a three pound jelly like organ, sort of the hardware that runs our body. But, what is that inner voice and is there only one? I see it as three major functions. 1. brain which relates to the outside world 2. mind which looks outward and inward. The mind sort of manages both the brain and the connection to the soul and otherworldy contact. You can't be visiting the non-physical world while driving a car, for instance. 3. The soul or spirit. The soul is not human--it has no mass or very little. It can't accomplish tasks on earth, but is part of the greater energy.
My wife has no body, she has left her body behind. Really the person I lived with for forty years was only part of the whole being. Now that she has no body, she is still available to me because of the depth of our earthly connection. Love is not only a physical connection, but a merging of souls.
To those who doubt these notions, I say this. You can choose to believe your brain, your mind or your soul. You can also learn to integrate all three. It is your choice, but one thing for sure is that you cannot prove that all there is to our existence is right in front of us, and why would you even try to. Remember, you can't hear the song if you don't turn the radio on. Be patient and remain open. You may have been having contact with your loved ones all along.