Kenman1

Hi!!! Just be patient my friend and give her the space she needs. People grieve in different ways!!! Obviously this GF of hers is playing on her emotions which is not cool...but if she truly loves you, she will be back!!! Tell her you love her, you want her in your life, but you will respect her space. Let her call you when she is ready!!! I hope all works out for you my friend!! Ken

Its been a little over three months since i lost the love of my life..my wife Vicki. Some days it seems like forever, some days it seems like yesterday!! Sundays are the hardest....i remember i used to get upset when she asked me questions during the football game.....now i wish i took more time to explain it to her. Regrets i have many...could i have been a better husband?? Could i have been more understanding? Am i that bad of a person that God took her away from me?? I often ask myself many of these questions. Am i going crazy? I do know one thing for sure....I really miss her!!

I am so sorry!!! I am new here and lost the love of my life on Monday may 16th after a 3 1/2 year battle with colon cancer!! My God your wife went to soon!!! Now the realization that my true love is gone breaks my heart and kills my soul!! I was her caregiver until the end...and i held her as she died.Vicki was a fighter who never gave up and battled this thing to the very end!! All the while she was only concerned about me!!! How unselfish my wife was!! I will miss her always...she was my wife, my best friend, my lover and the only woman i have ever loved this much!!!