C L O S U R E
This was one of the toughest things I have ever written. We all need
help going forward with life after a trauma or tragedy.
I believe the C in closure means the closure process is always a CHOICE we
have to make for ourselves individually.
The L in closure stands for LOVE. If we did not love we would never have to
experience closure.
The O in closure stands for ONE. The one that we love and miss and need closure to just
put one foot in front of another again.
The S stands for life’s SURPRISES that seem to come our way, no matter how broken hearted we may be.
The U stands for unfathomable, unnatural, unfortunate, unexpected and especially UNBEARABLE.
The R stands for RESISTANCE. The resistance that all of us feel at the thought of
moving forward without that special person in our lives any longer.
The E stands for ENOUGH. I have thought and even said enough many times. But I never experienced too much to stop reaching out to others in their moments of pain,
loss, and heartache. I wish all of you the best as you try and come to terms
with the heartbreak that requires you to try and find some closure.
By:
Debbie Wilson
09-30-2011
