Hi - I too just lost my Mom on Oct 14 2011. I still have my 91 yr old father who's behaviors are making it nearly impossible for me to grieve. When I am alone, or with my husband I can cry or remember wonderful moments with my mom - she was such a big part of my life for all of my 65 years. She faded aways with complications of Alzheimer's - 7 weeks of watching her starve was worse than the 7 years of the dementia. I know the sorrow, pain & loss I feel will ease over time - I give myself permission to cry and do when I can. The most difficult situation for me is dealing with my negative, difficult, self-absorbed father - does anyone have trouble with the surviving parent? I am glad to find a site to talk, listen & learn - hope I can add something of benefit for others & recieve some comfort, support & idea. Thanks.
