My boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me. I am devasted! We were suppose to get married. He started becoming more distant and finally I moved out last week. He was such a sweet guy and treated me so good but lately has been filled with rage and anger towards me and doesn't want to be around me, He said he needed time to heal and work on himself cause he is no good to me as a boyfriend right now. He lost his father about a year ago and his grandmother about 4 months ago. He has now taken on the role of his father since he is the oldest. About two months ago his mother had a breakdown which caused him to have one. I did not know how to deal with this because I deal with loss in a different way. When I lost my grandfather last year I had to block it out of my heart and move on. He has been depressed now for a long time. I have been verbally abusive towards him throughout our relationship and pushed him away because my ex before him had cheated on me. I know this was wrong and I had alot of issues which I am seeing a therapist for now. He said he finally got to the point where I have pushed him away completely and he feels broken. Then christmas came and he was getting worse said that it's really hard without his dad and grandma. Whats strange is that last christmas was ok for us and his dad had been gone for 8 months already. Is this normal for the grieving process? Does it sometimes take awhile to sink in? Will this man ever come back to me or is it best to just let him go? Thank you.
