My mother died over a year ago, and she still visits me in my dreams. The weird thing is, is that in all the dreams, it's usually in a hospital type setting (because her last two weeks were in hospital then a hospice facility). Or I'm there to see her, but I can't find her and I realize she has gone on to be with the Lord but I'm still searching for her in my dream. When she first died, I had about 1-2 dreams a week with her in it for the first few months. Now that it's been over a year, it's maybe once or twice a month, when I can remember them. They are ALWAYS depressing. I think there was ONE where I woke up with a good feeling or felt that she reallly "visited" me in my dreams. I'm not sure what all the dreams mean.
When she died, I didn't think I would be able to go on. We were very close. Some people dream of their lost ones, some people don't. There's nothing we can do about it. It's just one of those things.
Sleep well and cherish your memories of your father.
