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SCW Tim

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  • Date of Death
    9/15/2009
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    AZ

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    Sun City West, AZ
  1. Anne, This forum was a Godsend after I lost Lucille in 2009, my wonderful wife of 42 years. People were so supportive. I stopped reading and posting early in 2010 as I had reached a point that I needed to move on. Shortly after Valentine's Day last year my osteopath, who also knew my wife, introduced me to one of his patients. We met for lunch and spent the next 3 hours discovering we had so many things in common. As we were parting, we leaned toward each other and kissed gently. Later she told me she had never done that on a first date. Kissed yes, but only because the man initiated it. The past year has been an adventure for both of us. Yes, there have been disagreements because I was used to my wife's ways and she had been divorced for years, had many relationships, but none like ours. We remain in our own homes with no desire to marry or merge 2 homes with all their respective memories. This Valentine's Day I gave her a lovely diamond ring to signify our committed relationship. We speak often via phone every day and the drive to her home in Phoenix is a short 40 minutes. Time does heal and I hope you will be able to meet someone to share your life with. There's an old and often used saying...if it's meant to be, it will happen. I wish you well and hope this has been helpful to you and others on this forum. Tim
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