I do have a grief counselor that has been working with me for over a year now. In so many ways she has kept me alive when life just doesn`t feel worth living because I hate living without my son Kevin. Everyday is so painful with him gone. Yeah I can have some fun once in a while but thoughts of him are always there with me under the surface. I have some family members who are very supportive, others avoid conversation about what is going on for us. I have a couple good friends who are really here for me, but again I see them only when they can come over bc of my fear of driving. I have a set of goals for this year and driving again is one of them. I hate that my life has come to relying on others to get me from a to b and want to overcome this.
Trishia, I feel so sad for you! Reading what you wrote to me does give me hope. I know the pain will always be there, but I`m happy that the anxiousness (anxiety) does lessen eventually. I hope it happens for me soon.
Am still afraid of going out into the public. I think the way people avoid me because they don`t know what to say, bothers me the most! I want people to mention Kevin and to remember him. He is on my mind all the time, even when something else is going on, and people shouldn`t be afraid that they may make me cry. The tears are always there although I hide it, mostly for their sakes.
I turned 50 in December! My only wish when blowing out the candles, can never come true because I only wish that that negligent driver was never on the road that day and that Kevin was home safe with me. I can`t imagine going for so many more years with this pain. I feel so empty inside. Everyday does not get easier. I miss him so much.