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  1. dickd
    Thank you Mary
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    Things I am doing for myself to feel better about myself as I grieve for Judy: I am taking care of myself by eating healthy, daily 3 mile walks, daily swiming & exercising in our pool. I am going to go back to regular attendance @ AA mtgs. I have began taking out of town trips with a close friend. Judy wanted me to live life to the fullest, and to do that I need to stay healthy. I need to live on for Judy.
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    Kay, I am so sorry for the added pain this brings to your life! My hope is that you will have lots of positive things happen for you today!!!
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    I would give anything for one more day with my Judy if she would be pain free for that day; I wouldn't want her to suffer physically so I could have that day. The last 6 months of Judy's life were very painful for her with the brain cancer robbing her of her life. Knowing that she is not in pain anymore makes the loss almost tolerable. We had 46 & 1/2 Years together in a wonderful marriage. If I could have one of the good days where she was smiling and so full of life, I would give anything. We would just cuddle and remember the good times.
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    I went for a 3 mile walk this morning, talking with my wife Judy who I lost Mar 11, 2013 after 46 & 1/2 years without bursting in to tears. Practiced just thinking of all of the good times we had during all of those years. I actually looked up toward Heaven & smiled several times. Today I went back to the out patient rehab facility who helped Judy after her surgery for Brain Cancer; they were so nice to both of us, and really helped Judy. I felt good going back there to tell them how much we both appreciated all they did for Judy. I actually felt a little healing inside.
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    I went for my usual morning 3 mile walk today, and while I walked I talked to my deceased wife Judy, and didn't burst into tears once; I talked to her about some of our good times together over 46 & 1/2 years of marriage. The positive thing was I didn't turn it into a pity party. Gives me something to work on. Thinking of things that were positive for the day helps. Thanks
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