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  1. Hello, my girlfriend's mother died in Feb. of this year from cancer. She went very quickly, within 2 months. My girlfriend cared for her and we both were with her until the end. (her mother lived alone and only had one child--my girlfriend.) It's been so difficult being the partner and I was wondering if anyone could direct me to a site where I could get help for myself. I've given numbers for grief support groups and begged her to get a therapist but she hasn't yet. Her mother and her had a difficult relationship their whole lives--I've heard this makes grieving worse. As if there was a hierarchy to grieving, that's not what I mean. Anyway, after many hard months we went to Italy to try and have a bit of a vacation. And we did, we had a wonderful time. But the minute we got back my girlfriend started going so crazy. Is it possible for someone to be on vacation from their grief. She said she just wants to go to sleep forever and has been really erratic with her behaviors. Honestly, I feel afraid to leave her alone. She has no family either, so I feel like I'm her only support. Can anyone give advice for what I can do to help her and also advice for how I can help myself. We live in San Diego, California. Thanks
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