I did so well empting the closet of his clothes that the two of us shared. We kept off season clothes in bins in the basement and there is now one left of his summer short sleeved shirts. And for some reason I'm just not ready to go thru the shirts and get them to Goodwill. Keep telling myself that this is the time Goodwill will want them, but I seem to be"stuck!" Also there is a drawer in the entryway with his winter gloves and some hats and I'm just ignoring it. Funny, how suddenly I seem to be unable to deal with these things. It's almost as if I'm kicking him out of the house, but of course, I'm not. Reckon I'll know when I can deal with these things.
Fred was an avid gardener and had pots of flowers everywhere - on the patio, on the front deck, by the walk to the lake. After I got all the patio furniture out, it looked just awful without any flowers. So I went shopping and now have some flowers around - planted most of them myself. I'd walk past his picture, and tell him, "Fred, you'd be so proud of me!" So now I'm enjoying learning to garden - and learning how often I have to water!
Was interested to read that one of the gals got new linens for her bed. I just did the same thing. The new "look" looks good, BUT ..... Am also finding that I want to simplify my life. Just packed up my mother's crystal that I never use and put it in the garage. Will see if either of our daughters would like it. Northerngal