I had lost my boyfriend last summer in a very tragic and unexpected accident. His family blames me for his death and is certain that I had something to do with it- despite the autopsy report and what the police had said. This last year has been hell... As if losing him wasn't terrible enough, being blamed for his death and then had his family go out of their way to try to hurt me and cause problems for me. I understand that grieving is different for everyone and that some people blame others. I'm not even upset about that or for putting me thru what they have and I've learned to forgive them. Not for them, but for me and as part of my growing and healing process. His brother was the only one who has tried keeping in contact this whole time and checking up on me and my son but in the recent months we've continued talking more and getting to know each other better. We both have feelings for each other and like and care for eachother. I know it seems weird and hard to understand but I guess this can be a common thing for someone whose lost a partner?! We want to be together but the fact that his family hates me and still blames me is a huge issue. We both think we've found something special and different with eachother but he's torn because he doesn't want to hurt anyone, and I certainly don't want to put him I. The position to choose between me and his family. Not really sure where to go from here or if things could ever even really work?? Any advice would be much appreciated!!
