Jump to content
Grief Healing Discussion Groups

benzo72

Members
  • Posts

    2
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by benzo72

  1. Well kayc, she never actually said not to contact her again, but when a girl doesnt turn to you for help during such a hard time, doesnt that kinda imply that? For two weeks after the funeral, we didnt talk by any means, i was letting her cool down. She was close to her gma, and i too became close to her gma. Her and I used to go together and visit her gma in the hospital many times. She lives an hour north of me and her gma lived here in town where i lived. There were even a few times that i went and saw her gma without my ex gf, and we had a blast. Her gma had cancer stage 4, it was spreading everywhere fast! So two weeks before she passed away, her and I had a small fight, she was being soo cold and mean towards me on the phone, so when i told her to please to talk to me a little better, she snapped! I cannot risk contacting her, i will loose all my nc progress wont I? She has my #, so if she wanted to she could text or call me right? I dunno if thats how the female mind works? Until then i simply fell off the face of the earth, besides here. I was there every step of the way, why did i get canned after such a small petty fight?
  2. So its been about 2 1/2 months since her grandmother passed away from cancer. She ended the dating 2 weeks after prior to her grandmother passing. We had been having some issues anyways but over all things were great between us. So one day more than normal i was being put on the back burner more than normal. So naturally i got heated over this, and i called her on it. She appologised for that and had said she had too much on her plate, i tried to be understanding but i guess it wasnt enough. We talked about it and i tried to repair things, but it was too late. She said she was emotionally drained and had nothing left. Two weeks later i attended the funeral out of respect. Thats the last time we spoke. When leaving the funeral, i text saying "i love you" to which there was no reply. Later that she text me saying thank you for going to the funeral. I havent contacted since. She closed her facebook and just shut down. Am i doing the right thing by not calling her? Im here for her and she knows that, its just she hasnt once tried to call. What do you think?
×
×
  • Create New...