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  1. KayC, I understand your pain...I lost my husband to cancer 2 months ago. We have 3 children together, 2 grandchildren. We had been together over 35 years. We found out only a month and half before he died. He didn't want anyone to know he was sick his reason being he didn't want anyone to feel sorry for him. I never dealt with his illness because I was so busy trying to say postive for him, we never really got a chance to say goodbye. Anyway a week after he was buried I open his cell phone bill to pay it and have it cancelled. There were pages of calls he had made to different women until a week before he die, mine me he could hardly talk because the tumor was pressing on his voice cord. I found out one of the women was the sister of his friend, another was a co worker, I really don't know who the others were. He had been call his friend's sister for over a year and half. At that time I wanted to dig him up to kill him again pain was undesrible. Now here is the killer 2 weeks later we receive a call from his daughter 27 years old that I knew nothing about he had an eleven year affair with her mother. I have been so depressed, angry, sick at my stomach, I can't sleep. I can't seem to get past it and it is really taking it toll. I really feel like a big fool not knowing about this child, everyone else knew but me and my children. One of his friend said he didn't want to tell me because he knew I would leave him I hate him for that. I have been doing thing that are just out of my character, spreading this information to anyone that will listen and that's not like me I am generally a very private person. I know I need professional help I intend to get it soon.
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