Thank you, Kay! I have been going over and over the accident in my mind... My older kids reserved an area for Harmony. I love gardens and she loved my yellow flower tree, so I am going to create a garden just for her. My children has been seeing a counselor and I have been on a weekly basis. My husband does not feel like talking to one yet, so he has been talking to me instead. Harmony was the youngest. My oldest is already 23. So, Harmony was a blessing for everyone in the family. Thus, her death was very shocking and painful for us all. I am happy to hear that you are doing well with the loss of your husband. My husband is my best friend as well, so we share a lot together. I hope to find peace within myself along this long journey. I have been talking to Harmony every morning and night, as these times are the ones when I miss her the most when I hear her voice waking me up and when I am tucking her to bed. I feel that there is something, an energy there after death. I felt it when she passed away that night, that feeling where someone said something is wrong. Her death was just so tragic and heart wrenching, as I found her lifeless body. The images just will not go away...maybe there will be a day in the future where I can tell the story and not cry... Again, thank you for sharing your experiences with me. I continue to research and read about these tragedies to help release my pain. They have helped, especially your suggestions and tips. Charlene