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Kay, no I didn't write that, but saw it and thought it expressed my and all of our feelings so well.

CairnLady, just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts today, I know exactly what you are feeling today as it marks my 4th year since Dale, the love of my life, left. I know I don't post much, but it's not because I don't have any feelings, I do, it's just I don't have the words to express how I feel. I'm still so lost and it doesn't seem to get any easier over time, that saying "time heals all wounds" is such a lie. Some days it's a little less, but most days it's as hard or even harder than it was in the beginning (I guess the fog is long gone). He's still my everything! You all in my thoughts and hugs to all of you Grief Poem 11.docx

You are in my thoughts today Marg. Like the picture and it sounds like you had the best kind of anniversaries you could have, just being together. That's how we would celebrate ours too, nothing special, just spending time together. Hugs

So sorry that you are sick Kay and to feel that way today of all days. Hope you feel better soon and sending thoughts your way to get through today. Hugs

So sweet Kay and celebrate George today in a great way today. Hugs

Yes George, you are not alone and are loved. Sending you good thoughts and prayers that the next few weeks will go smoothly. Shalom and hugs.

George, you are in my thoughts and prayers, hugs

I'm glad you had a nice birthday George and spent it the way you wanted. Happy belated birthday.

Those "special" days can be so hard and are not the same. All we can do is like what you did our best to celebrate those days with them. Hugs to you

Glad the surgery went well and you made it home Kay. Take it easy the next few days and you are in our thoughts.

Treat yourself today, I won't say "happy" just birthday, as said the happy part doesn't really exist. But do have a good day and do something special for yourself! Hugs

Johnny, wedding anniversaries are especially difficult because they were such a happy day and now they bring such sadness. Just do what feels right to you and hope you don't have to spend it alone.

Kay, I'm so sorry to hear that you have melanoma. You will be in my thoughts and prayers that they caught it in time and that they can get it all with the surgery. Sending hugs....

I'm so sorry you had this awful dream, I can't imagine how you are feeling. Like Dee said I hope the memory of it leaves you soon, but I guess as long as we are talking about and keep commenting on it, it won't. Sending hugs and sending you NO dreams!

Oh my Gin, I'm so glad you were able to get into the doctors so quickly (that doesn't usually happen). I'm sure the incision will start feeling better soon, it takes awhile and am glad they were able to catch the problem in time. I know it is hard without our partner to go through things like that, it's hard enough to go through every day, but Al is with you in spirit and holding you tight. Keep us updated on how you are doing, take care of yourself and am sending you big hugs!