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  • Your relationship to the individual who died
    brother
  • Date of Death
    03/08/2016
  • Name/Location of Hospice if they were involved:
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    Female
  • Location (city, state)
    missouri
  1. Thank you so much for replying to my post. The driver was arrested and is awaiting trial for 5 counts of vehicular homicide which carries a maximum sentence of 75 years (15 per each person) but we are talking about a third world country we corrupt justice system so we will see what he actually gets. The problem is that no matter what he took so much and caused so much pain but no jail sentence is going to bring my brother back. I was such a happy girl before but it's because I had never experience tragedy and grief and it makes me view life in a different way I am not sure I can be the same person after I know there is such pain in the world thanks
  2. I'm going through a very difficult time. My oldest brother (39) died a month ago in a car wreck. We were super close as I lived with him for 5 years and he was always protecting me and giving me his support I'm guidance ( I'm 31) even before he died he told me how much he loved me and to take care of my belly, That we will see each other in a few days but this never happened and I'm devastated! He was so full of life his wife recently had a baby, they both had great jobs and just bought a new house. He had so many dreams but was robbed of all of them by a negligent driver! I'm so full of anger and hate! My brother was sent abroad to Central America by his company he was the passenger in a car that had an accident going to the airport he survived this accident and was getting help by the paramedics when a stupid driver mini bus driver decided to skip the line pass at high speed and lost control of his vehicle hitting the scene of the accident killing my brother and 4 other people (paramedic, officer, 2 good Samaritans) he of course survived with only a broken wrist! What are the odds that everything that could have gone wrong went wrong! They were taking my brother out of the car right at the moment this driver lost control! Everything seems so CRUEL! I have never experience a loss before and this is killing me. I was so happy with my life and pregnancy before and what was supposed to be the best year of my life turned into the worst in such an unfair and tragic way. I can't stop asking myself why him? Why us! I have 8 uncles in their 70s, 90 year old grandpas and countless cousins and nobody has experience such a loss it's like he was handpicked to suffer and early death I am not religious and i am an agnostic but even if there was a God I would be so angry at it! my brother was a good person always smiling and supper positive he was a loving father and husband and left behind 3 kids ages 5,2 and a newborn baby girl. I hate how bad parents, child molesters and bad people get to live a long life and I know a few! i just don't know I want answers! I miss my brother he was so excited about being an uncle we were supposed to grow old together now he's gone forever thanks to that driver gross negligence and stupidity
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