My girlfriend and I met about a month and a half ago online. We got along super well and she has told me she loves me. When we met she told me her mom has cancer. Recently her mom went in for surgery and got the tumor removed. While under anesthesia she experienced brain bleeding and had to be put into a medically induced coma. She healed up and was awoken. All this while me and my girlfriend and I talked every day. We had plans to meet up on June 18th but she said if her mom woke up we probably wouldn't be able to hang out because she would have to take care of her. After her mom woke up I still tried to hang out, selfishly so, we got into a little argument over it. We were still talking for another day or so but then she cut me off for a few days. I thought it was because I had acted selfish when it came to hanging out So I sent her a couple apologies via text. She finally replied a couple days later and said "my mom is really sick. I can't focus on myself right now" I said I understand and wish there was something I could do to help. Because she wouldn't ever reply I asked if she wanted space or wanted me to leave her alone for good. She didn't reply but the next night texted "how are you?". I said "I missed you" and she said "really?" I said "couldn't you tell" and she said no. I thought that was weird because I had texted her 5 times without a reply. I said "I love you like crazy", and she said "good". I said "I still wanna be with you through think and thin. Is that still ok?" she replied "yes". Since then I'll just message her something supportive half way though each day and she will not reply with words but just sends me pictures of herself. It's been like this for a couple days. She won't talk to me just sends me pictures of herself. I don't know how to take this. Yesterday was the last time we talked but it was weird because we were actually texting and she sent me some provocative non nude pics and then when I complemented them she full on sent a nude then talked dirty for a bit before shutting me down again. I was taken aback from this because I don't want the only time we actually talk to be sexual. This had me nervous so I asked "do you still love me? I'll understand either way" she didn't reply. So I have no idea what to do. I do really like this girl. I feel like if I don't text her during the day she will think I'm not being supportive enough or giving up. But it's so hard pretty much talking to a wall when I text her trying to show support. Should I maybe not text her for a few days or until she texts me again? I guess in the back of my head I feel like this could be about more then just her mom being sick. I have no idea what to do in this situation
